More and more young married people are not standing for no sex and bad feelings in their marriages. However, instead of turning the blame to where it squarely belongs... on the shoulder's of the partner who is acting badly.. let's all talk around the issue and not look at it for what it is. I guarantee that divorce rates are going to only climb as people, in this 'it's all about me' society, suddenly awaken that their sex lives depends SOLELY on their partner. And if their partner is purposefully withholding sex because they don't feel like it for days, weeks, months +++... then they will simply go get it from someone else. Plus, this other person (the affair partner) makes the married man (or woman) feel good about themselves, feel wanted, feel loved... too bad the married man's wife (or husband) wasn't capable of give the cheating partner those feelings - if he/she had, then most likely the cheating husband/wife would have never cheated on them to begin with. But, no! We can't SAY that!! That would be blaming the VICTIM! And in this society of 'victims' that is socially unacceptable. So in fact, the victims are actually perpetrating their own 'victimization'
