New Member of the Cheater's Club - Chef Gordon Ramsay

Chef Gordon Ramsay is the newest member of the Cheaters Club. See attached article. Now, I never thought he was that good looking, but I can see how is brash, take-charge attitude, and passion is a turn on. A woman has to wonder if he is like that in between the sheets too! Hey, I'm only saying what women every where are thinking!

Infidelity in Public Marriages Tantalizes Us

I came across this article in the Tennessean by columnist Saritha Prabhu. In fact, I stole the her title! Well, I AM giving her credit for her well written article. Here are a few excerpts worth repeating..

"Why do accomplished women stay in their marriage with their unfaithful husbands? Indeed, why have Silda Spitzer, Elizabeth Edwards, David Vitter's wife, Ted Haggard's wife and others stayed on?" Duh, because she loves him and she is probably aware that there will always be women (or men) hot for her husband... and he is only human.

"What we've been seeing, though, is that, in general, men in power seem to have more illicit affairs than women in power. This isn't a sexist view but an empirical one. If Sen. Dianne Feinstein is chasing underage pages, I haven't read about it; if Speaker Pelosi has propositioned people in airport restrooms, there hasn't been a whiff of it. Likewise, if Sen. Olympia Snowe has a boy beau, no one has heard about it." Chances are these older ladies haven't had sex with their OWN husbands in ages, let alone any underage pages. Plus, men don't necessarily pursue OLDER ladies who no longer appear to be fertile.

"Not to condone cheating at all, but I feel that if the infidelity doesn't involve abuse of power or misuse of public money, it really is none of our business....Tellingly, in a recent poll, a majority of New Yorkers said they would now rather have the flawed Spitzer as governor than the ineffective David Paterson." Amen sister!

"While character is important, we can all agree that competence and intelligence are also what are most needed in the highest levels of power, but they, sadly, too often seem to be tied to reckless carnal appetites." Like I have always said, to the victor goes the spoils!

In the animal world, human no less than human, competition is intense. Males threaten, fight, and bluff one another in an effort to obtain access to females. The winner, the victor, the PRESIDENT... gets the FEMALES.

Females are naturally drawn to the winner. It's in our genes to procreate with the winner of the fight and it's in HIS genes to have sex with every fertile female who will have him. By condemning top public officials of having an extramarital affair, is to condone the very DRIVE and AMBITION that got him there!

Jon and Kate Plus 8 = INFIDELITY

According to several sources (Us Magazine and N.Y Post), one half of the reality couple (Jon and Kate plus 8) has been spotted around town minus HIS wedding ring and in the company of other women.  I could have predicted this!  Have you seen their show on TLC?  Kate is a real b__ch! She nags at him, belittles him, yells at him, and mocks his manhood on national tv!  Her verbal assaults are often material for the E! show TalkSoup.  Watch this clip of her ranting at Jon. She is the EXACT reason why most men have extra-marital affairs!  I don't know if she is playing it up for the ratings, or worse she is toning it DOWN for the censors.  Nevertheless, Jon apparently has had enough and I don't blame him.  

Recession Hits Prostitutes Revenue

Read this quick blurb I came across in Time magazine, dated May 6, 2009, page 15....
"Turns out even sex isn't recession proof. Brothel owners in Germany, where an estimated 400,000 prostitutes operate legally, are resorting to gimmicks like price cuts, package deals and other promotions to lure penny-pinching customers. One madam says revenues at her Hanover brothel have dropped 30% in recent months. Another establishment is offering a $90.00 flat rate admission fee during daytime hours for unlimited food, drink and sex."

I bet 'free' extra-marital affairs between co-workers, neighbors, etc are on the RISE. Why? Well, financial strain leads to arguments, which leads to pissed off wives, which leads to no sex for husbands. Number two argument between married folks is over money (number one is arguing over the kids). However, because money is tighter these days adulterers must get creative as to where to go to have their affair since hotels are too expensive. I suggest renting someones spare bedroom for the afternoon on http://www.airbnb.com/. It is a bed and privacy for a fraction of what you would pay for at a hotel - check it out!

Married Folks ARE NOT Healthier than Single Folks!

I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!

I have always pondered why studies have shown that married folks are healthier than singles. It just didn't seem logical to me, since marital stress and conflict are associated with coronary disease and higher mortality risk.

New, more realistic, studies are revealing that married people are NOT healthier than singles! (Ref: Psychology Today, Nov/Dec 08, Page 93).

Single people have a much more diverse relationship portfolio. Meaning, they DO have more sexual partners, maybe not AS MUCH sex as a married person, however, they have more partners - which is biologically more in line with how we (humans) are SUPPOSE to be living!

Also, past studies did NOT take into account the HUGE amount of stress that marriage causes. Women in hostile marriages have more coronary artery disease, while men in more controlling relationships (whether they are the dominator or the one getting bossed around) have more coronary artery disease than single men. Both situations likely activate stress responses, which are known to contribute to, if not cause, an array of ailments.

Bruce Springsteen - Newest Member of the Cheaters Club

Congratulations to Bruce Springsteen! The newest member of the Cheaters Club. See, I told you cheating on your spouse was as American as apple pie, baseball, and Bruce Springsteen! Interesting twist on Mr. Springsteen's story. It wasn't his wife that outed him... it was the husband, Arthur Kelly, that named Bruce as 'the other man' in Arthur's divorce case against his cheating wife, Ann C. Kelly. Arthur claims the affair happen at various times and places too numerous to mention. In case you have forgotten, Bruce has been married to Patti Scialfa for 18 years.

Another Marriage Bites the Dust

Here it is, another Hollywood marriage that is over and again I blame the wife. I speaking of Madonna and Guy Richie. A "close friend" of the estranged duo said, "Guy has been saying that they both have separate lives at the moment. Madonna spends too much time in the gym and she is obsessed with trying to look years younger than her real age. Guy feels that Madonna does not focus on him anymore."

I don't mean to beat a dead horse, but Guy has "come to the conclusion that enough is enough". Generally, men will not stay with (or he will cheat on) a woman that treats him like crap. It doesn't matter if she is a world famous, beautiful, sex symbol like Madonna or a supermodel such as Christie Brinkley.

I hope Guy doesn't go on 20/20 or The View. He will be torn apart by the feminists. I wouldn't doubt that in the coming weeks/months, we will find out that there were infidelities on both sides - Madonna has already been linked to A-Rod. However, if it is uncovered that Guy had an affair - watch out folks - that will really set the feminists off and Madonna's bad behavior will be obscured/overlooked and will fade into the black as his infidelities will take center stage on The View, etc.