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Thursday, June 11, 2009
Monday, June 8, 2009
Extramarital Affairs, Married Dating, Married Seeking Affairs, Married Man Seeking
Friday, June 5, 2009
Friday, May 15, 2009
New Member of the Cheater's Club - Chef Gordon Ramsay
Chef Gordon Ramsay is the newest member of the Cheaters Club. See attached article. Now, I never thought he was that good looking, but I can see how is brash, take-charge attitude, and passion is a turn on. A woman has to wonder if he is like that in between the sheets too! Hey, I'm only saying what women every where are thinking!
More Newlyweds are Cheating
A recent article on CBS News reported that more and more newlyweds are cheating on their new spouses. Researchers at the University of Washington Center for the Study of Health and Risk Behaviors found that roughly 20% of men and 15% of women under the age of 35 cheated on their spouses. These percentages are up from 15% and 12% respectively, 15 years prior. I bet the percentages are a lot higher. Stats on adultery are very hard to collect, since most people who are unfaithful don't admit to it. The article goes on to give several reasons why... such as intimacy problems, the Internet, power struggles, heavy drinking, communication issues, the sudden adjustment from 'me' to 'we', and commitment problems.
I agree, for the most part that all the reasons are contributing to adultery... however, I believe that lack of sex is probably the biggest reason
I agree, for the most part that all the reasons are contributing to adultery... however, I believe that lack of sex is probably the biggest reason
- Intimacy problems = no sex
- Looking at Internet porn (pissed off wife) = no sex
- Power struggles (pissed off wife) = no sex
- Heavy drinking (pissed off wife) = no sex
- Communication issues (pissed off wife) = no sex
- Sudden adjustment of realizing that you are forever committed to someone who won't give you sex = no sex!
More and more young married people are not standing for no sex and bad feelings in their marriages. However, instead of turning the blame to where it squarely belongs... on the shoulder's of the partner who is acting badly.. let's all talk around the issue and not look at it for what it is. I guarantee that divorce rates are going to only climb as people, in this 'it's all about me' society, suddenly awaken that their sex lives depends SOLELY on their partner. And if their partner is purposefully withholding sex because they don't feel like it for days, weeks, months +++... then they will simply go get it from someone else. Plus, this other person (the affair partner) makes the married man (or woman) feel good about themselves, feel wanted, feel loved... too bad the married man's wife (or husband) wasn't capable of give the cheating partner those feelings - if he/she had, then most likely the cheating husband/wife would have never cheated on them to begin with. But, no! We can't SAY that!! That would be blaming the VICTIM! And in this society of 'victims' that is socially unacceptable. So in fact, the victims are actually perpetrating their own 'victimization'
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Infidelity in Public Marriages Tantalizes Us
I came across this article in the Tennessean by columnist Saritha Prabhu. In fact, I stole the her title! Well, I AM giving her credit for her well written article. Here are a few excerpts worth repeating..
"Why do accomplished women stay in their marriage with their unfaithful husbands? Indeed, why have Silda Spitzer, Elizabeth Edwards, David Vitter's wife, Ted Haggard's wife and others stayed on?" Duh, because she loves him and she is probably aware that there will always be women (or men) hot for her husband... and he is only human.
"What we've been seeing, though, is that, in general, men in power seem to have more illicit affairs than women in power. This isn't a sexist view but an empirical one. If Sen. Dianne Feinstein is chasing underage pages, I haven't read about it; if Speaker Pelosi has propositioned people in airport restrooms, there hasn't been a whiff of it. Likewise, if Sen. Olympia Snowe has a boy beau, no one has heard about it." Chances are these older ladies haven't had sex with their OWN husbands in ages, let alone any underage pages. Plus, men don't necessarily pursue OLDER ladies who no longer appear to be fertile.
"Not to condone cheating at all, but I feel that if the infidelity doesn't involve abuse of power or misuse of public money, it really is none of our business....Tellingly, in a recent poll, a majority of New Yorkers said they would now rather have the flawed Spitzer as governor than the ineffective David Paterson." Amen sister!
"While character is important, we can all agree that competence and intelligence are also what are most needed in the highest levels of power, but they, sadly, too often seem to be tied to reckless carnal appetites." Like I have always said, to the victor goes the spoils!
In the animal world, human no less than human, competition is intense. Males threaten, fight, and bluff one another in an effort to obtain access to females. The winner, the victor, the PRESIDENT... gets the FEMALES.
Females are naturally drawn to the winner. It's in our genes to procreate with the winner of the fight and it's in HIS genes to have sex with every fertile female who will have him. By condemning top public officials of having an extramarital affair, is to condone the very DRIVE and AMBITION that got him there!
"Why do accomplished women stay in their marriage with their unfaithful husbands? Indeed, why have Silda Spitzer, Elizabeth Edwards, David Vitter's wife, Ted Haggard's wife and others stayed on?" Duh, because she loves him and she is probably aware that there will always be women (or men) hot for her husband... and he is only human.
"What we've been seeing, though, is that, in general, men in power seem to have more illicit affairs than women in power. This isn't a sexist view but an empirical one. If Sen. Dianne Feinstein is chasing underage pages, I haven't read about it; if Speaker Pelosi has propositioned people in airport restrooms, there hasn't been a whiff of it. Likewise, if Sen. Olympia Snowe has a boy beau, no one has heard about it." Chances are these older ladies haven't had sex with their OWN husbands in ages, let alone any underage pages. Plus, men don't necessarily pursue OLDER ladies who no longer appear to be fertile.
"Not to condone cheating at all, but I feel that if the infidelity doesn't involve abuse of power or misuse of public money, it really is none of our business....Tellingly, in a recent poll, a majority of New Yorkers said they would now rather have the flawed Spitzer as governor than the ineffective David Paterson." Amen sister!
"While character is important, we can all agree that competence and intelligence are also what are most needed in the highest levels of power, but they, sadly, too often seem to be tied to reckless carnal appetites." Like I have always said, to the victor goes the spoils!
In the animal world, human no less than human, competition is intense. Males threaten, fight, and bluff one another in an effort to obtain access to females. The winner, the victor, the PRESIDENT... gets the FEMALES.
Females are naturally drawn to the winner. It's in our genes to procreate with the winner of the fight and it's in HIS genes to have sex with every fertile female who will have him. By condemning top public officials of having an extramarital affair, is to condone the very DRIVE and AMBITION that got him there!
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Wha..Wha..What!!! ..."4 Secrets to a Hotter Marriage"?? OH PLEASE!
OMG! The recent article on Lifestyle MSN outlined '4 "SECRETS" to a Hotter Marriage'. Holy shit... I had NO IDEA that being nice to your husband, looking nice for him, doing something fun with him, and having sex with him were (shhhh.... don't tell anyone) SECRETS! Are you serious? Do you honestly think that wives read this article and do a V8 slap to the forehead and say, "OMG, that's the secret to a hot marriage?" Call me crazy, but I have been saying this for years!!! Men are VERY simple creatures. They HAVE to feel wanted sexually by their wives or you can kiss your marriage goodbye! This article simply outlines a few ways to let your husband know that you desire him.... like flirt with him, keep yourself looking nice, do something fun with him, and have sex with him. It's too bad that acting loving and caring is now a 'secret' instead of being the 'norm'.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Jon and Kate Plus 8 = INFIDELITY
According to several sources (Us Magazine and N.Y Post), one half of the reality couple (Jon and Kate plus 8) has been spotted around town minus HIS wedding ring and in the company of other women. I could have predicted this! Have you seen their show on TLC? Kate is a real b__ch! She nags at him, belittles him, yells at him, and mocks his manhood on national tv! Her verbal assaults are often material for the E! show TalkSoup. Watch this clip of her ranting at Jon. She is the EXACT reason why most men have extra-marital affairs! I don't know if she is playing it up for the ratings, or worse she is toning it DOWN for the censors. Nevertheless, Jon apparently has had enough and I don't blame him.
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